Background Scripture:
Lamentations 3:17, 18
17 my soul is bereft of peace; I have forgotten what happiness is;
18 so I say, “My endurance has perished; so has my hope from the Lord.”
Podcast Sections:
02:22 Michael talks about the loss of his son
04:37 The aftermath of the loss – losing a son not like losing a parent
05:42 The second year was harder than the first
06:20 “Time heals all wounds” – you never get over the loss of a child
07:44 The simplest things become more difficult
09:28 What conversations with God were like
13:16 Lamentations passage – fake it until you make it
14:52 Some Sundays God and I aren’t talking to each other
15:45 The Lord can handle anything we say to him
16:29 Passages that show God understands our weakness
17:40 It’s impossible for your faith to survive unless you stay tethered to his people
20:56 Counseling is very necessary including marital counseling
23:54 The role of faith in all of this
25:26 “If an empty tomb does not excite you, you’ve never wept beside a grave” – Good comes from tragic circumstances
26:55 “To some level, I have a miserable existence.”
28:17 You can survive living with pain
29:10 Why so many couples wind up divorcing
31:25 Good grief
32:15 Good that has come from the loss
38:20 Heaven becomes more real
38:54 One becomes more comfortable with death
How soon should one expect to get over the grief of a child or a close loved one? (6:20, 26:55)
Is it realistic to think somone’s relationship with God will stand unchanged with the loss of a child? (Consider reading Lamentations 3:17-24)
What advantages do we have in handling grief if we have a good church family? (17:40)
Michael says that 70 percent of couples that lose a child end up divorcing. How can a couple overcome these odds?
Discuss the idea that good can come from loss.